2020 – Surrendering my Life…Reflecting on 35 Years


10.4.2020.

The days are rolling on very slowly.


I have no problem with this. Life was going too fast and 2019 was the fastest year yet!

Some say this ‘time-warp’ is related to maturity, ageing…

I think that this observation has merit, but I also believe in the Biblical principal of God accelerating the days of this world as it approaches an inevitable end.

It’s astonishing how fast it’s all gone.


I still struggle to see myself as 35 years old sometimes.

Where did the time go?

I’m thankful I can answer that question with my detailed memories…


August 1999 - Parisian Artist's Rendering
August 1999 – Parisian Artist’s Rendering

(15) The Dark Passenger emerges


1998 – 1999. Age Fifteen.

English Literature class at Secondary School was having a very strong impact on me.

The concepts of right and wrong conceived a thirst for more information about morality and psychology.

Shakespeare’s texts were the most intense source of inspiration in this endeavour.

On the dark side, depression was knocking at my door.

I really wanted a girlfriend–a monogamous, faithful, pure relationship. But being in an all-boys’ school left me with a bit of a challenge…

I grew gravely sad about my school life.

I’d never fitted into the private school ‘old boys’ network.

My own resentment about the single gender scenario amplified a loathing and anger about life, feeding childhood wounds I didn’t even know I had.

I wanted out…and meant that in more ways than one….

During this dark time, I made a vow to the universe.

I said:

“in ten years time, if I’m still not happy with London, I’m leaving the country…”


Message from Jesus – “Keep hope. Be good. Do not worry about tomorrow.”

Message from the World – “We will take that vow. You WILL leave the country in 10 years time.”


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